What is the problem? Why can’t we change? The spirit of religion focuses on what other people see, but “the power grace” of God focuses on what is inward. Ephesians 3:16
Ephesians 3:16 (NIV)
16 I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being,
2 Corinthians 12:9 9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.